Archive for October, 2008

夜班

Friday, October 31st, 2008

一天无事,下午五点被叫去干活,凌晨三点才回家。早上七点又要去。同一个会议室里几个上了年纪的合伙人也熬到这会儿,还留下几个律助要熬通宵。

睡了。

update.  Friday evening.  Anna is trick-or-treating somewhere with Ping.  I am still at work, looking at another late-late night shift that could last well into Saturday morning.  Had about 3 hours worth of sleep last night and now sleepiness is kicking in.  The cleaning lady came and went.  She used to order me to take the late night trash I produced after her visit to the garbage area by myself, and not leave it in the office for her to clean out the next day.  “Everyone cleans out his own garbage afterhours,” she was visibly upset as she had to take my overnight garbage.  I knew the unspoken words: so who are you the first year to disobey?  So I made a mental note to put her on my do-not-mess-with list, which probably includes all partners senior/mid/junior associates, secretaries old and new, human resources, billing department, etc, and now the cleaning lady.  But now whenever she comes afterhours and sees me still in my office, she speaks with a softer tone, perhaps with a bit of suppressed sympathy.  Heck, I don’t have time for sympathy.  I don’t even have time to go get lunch.  My secretary had to get me lunch today just so that I could use that 10 minutes to get something out the door.  But now lunch seems like a distant thing of the past, just like my post-bar exam days when sleeping time was plenty.  Man did I really type all those words maybe I really need to take a break.

杂记

Thursday, October 30th, 2008

地铁站里的巡警盯上我了,没招他惹他,居然一周里查了我三次包看有无危险品,难道我和恐怖分子有什么共同之处?

所里公布了新一届的合伙人,高年级的肯定是有人欢喜有人愁的,但是和我们一点关系都没有。听着这些消息,好像小学四五年级的学生听说某某人考上了大学一样,觉得是非常遥远的事情。

晚上十点钟被叫回所里加班。临出门的时候喝一大杯咖啡,打算整晚工作了。小南坐在床上说,爸爸,天黑了,请你不要去上班,好吗?快到所里的时候被通知说还是明天早上再说吧,你先回去睡一觉明天再来接替别人。于是立刻掉头,在咖啡因的作用下极度亢奋地回到家,看了几集电视剧才睡下。

Splurge II

Sunday, October 26th, 2008

周五晚上开始发的烧,周六一天腿脚发软,原定回马州的计划也泡了汤,本来说如果不出去的话周末就要干的活,也临时取消了。

周日上午起来觉得好了不少,和萍儿聊天,突发奇想,问:你看我们去买块手表来戴如何?平时看手机看惯了,换换口味。

萍儿说,与其买表不如买个钻戒。

我对钻石的东西不是很感兴趣,而萍儿对复杂的机械制品也同样不感冒,一番讨论后决定取二者交集,买一对纯金属的戒指好了。于是临时决定吃完早饭去逛商场买戒指。

先到的是美国人民版的老凤祥,就是那个明明在营业却非要关着门以避免好奇者骚扰的首饰店。一个和蔼的老爷爷端上来好几个圆滚滚的金属圈,乍看像是放在天鹅绒上的钥匙环。正当我们一个个地试的时候,他在一旁观察一番之后发话了:先生你这个手指的形状可能比较麻烦。

我十分诧异地看着我的无名指。

你看,你的指关节以下部份比指关节要粗,所以大小不容易选。太小的卡肉里,稍大一点又容易滑掉因为你的指关节部分起不到摩擦作用。

头一回听说。不就是手上多了几两肉么。。。 说得我的手指跟纺锤似的。

临走,老爷爷很失望地问我,对钻石什么的不感兴趣?

不感。也不敢。

之后直奔法国人民版的周大福,就是除了做首饰还自己做手表的那家。看中了一对很朴素很简单的,结账买下。售货员大姐笑容可掬地问:您二位什么时候办喜事啊?

于是我又一次十分地诧异,看来这法国人民的思想就是开放,小南一直跟在身边,明显小孩都打酱油了,还什么时候办喜事呢。

哦,不是,算是结婚纪念吧。(其实上一个已经过了大半年,下一个也还有好几个月)。

啊,结婚几年了?

八年多了。

法国的周大福员工果然训练有素,察言观色的本领十分了得,比美国的老凤祥强。她一边啧啧称奇,说你们都结婚八年了还能互相微笑,很不错啊,一边像魔术一样地变出一支香槟来,说,你看,这是我们周大福牌的香槟,法国都很难买到的,送给你们,结婚纪念日快乐。

于是收下。手指头上套着刚买的周大福戒指,手里拎着周大福酒,皆大欢喜地回家。

回家路上头又开始疼了。不知是不是什么时候出了身冷汗,感冒又发作了。回到家里,小南仔细端详了几分钟我俩的戒指,突然说:你们都有了,我还没有呢。

Splurge

Saturday, October 25th, 2008

Recently I’ve been on a mission to replace my twenty-something clothes with a thirty-something wardrobe.  Today’s acquisition is a cashmere scarf by Colombo.  Admittedly I had no idea at the time that Colombo was a well respected Italian cashmere house on par with Loro Piana, but after some curious googling after the fact, now I do.  Given how even I could instantly tell the difference in quality, I am not all that surprised that it is well liked.  I guess sometimes it’s not all just hot air and lavish marketing behind name brands…

心愿

Friday, October 24th, 2008

从小到大心愿不少,实现的不多,没有实现而保留到今天的就更少了。这些陈芝麻烂谷子里,其中一个很快就要实现,等板上钉钉了以后再汇报。另一个现在看来还遥遥无期,不妨简介如下。

好像是中学的时候很是迷了一阵中国的当代艺术,当时还没有到裸体游街和开膛破肚的夸张地步,也没有什么人体彩绘之类的东西。记得买过一本书,介绍当时的艺术先锋和他们的作品,从头读到尾从尾读到头,不知道为什么一下子就喜欢得很,共鸣得不行,于是很俗地想,等长大了我去把他们的作品买下来挂家里。后来回头再想,这是典型的没有艺术天赋的人的想法。

很多当时很喜欢的作品不记得名字了,但是印象还是很深。其中一个是用红纸剪成的无数小红人,手脚弯着和青蛙一样,大小不一,铺天盖地。还有一个是用宣纸去拓长城,很简单的一个创意,但是把成品装到展馆里的效果实在是非常地震撼人。另外还有个弄活字印刷的,手工刻的活字,都是生造字,没有一个人能看得懂的,名为《天书》。记得同期还有一些纯行为艺术的,比如打伞在街上走,把写满了字的稿纸扔进洗衣机里搅成纸浆什么的,没有固定的平面效果,不是特别能欣赏。

说这些,是因为偶然在网上看见最近某艺术品拍卖会上卖出了《天书》的一页,以数万元的价格成交,很惆怅,因为下一次再卖出来,恐怕又要贵好多倍了。于是搜索了一下,原来作者已经功成名就,现在是中央美院副院长了。又看了他后来的不少以文字为元素的作品,还是一样的喜欢。

自己做不出这些东西,所以退而求其次,如果哪一天能够买到一幅他的文字作品,或者那些大大小小红人中的一个,装裱起来,挂在门背后,每天出门前看五秒钟,此为心愿之一。

Weekend

Thursday, October 23rd, 2008

Work has picked up pace again and my weekend now looks uncertain.  My alma mater is holding a homecoming event this Saturday and I really wanted to go but don’t know if I can make it. 

As I slowly get more exposure to the people here at the firm I am actually getting to like it here.  I had planned for disasterous personality conflicts due to the inflated ego that’s common at elite firms but so far I’ve been enjoying the interaction with my coworkers and superiors.  I actually like it more now than I did last summer, when I and almost a hundred others were affectionately nicknamed “lunch coupon,” for the free fancy lunches that we were treated to.  Not the least because now I feel like I am doing real work–no matter how boring it may be – that forms a piece of the puzzle that the team is putting together, rather than some meaningless toy projects that the summers get to waste their time and digest their $60 lunches on. 

There’s no free lunch after all, so I am paying my dues now.  Seriously, though, I don’t wake up in the morning hating my job and myself like I thought I would.  I get up, get dressed, and look forward to getting to work.

I guess we will see if anything changes after a few more months.

4 years

Sunday, October 19th, 2008

I’ve just noticed.  It’s been 4 years since I began writing this blog.